The Neighbor Next Door May Be the Friend He Doesn't Have
A recent article from the research organization More in Common explored a troubling reality: many men have very few people they can call when life gets difficult. Some men reported having no one at all. Others could name only a spouse or family member. The article highlights what many researchers have been documenting for years: a growing crisis of male friendship and social connection . As I read the article, I could not help but think about neighborhoods. For years, neighboring advocates have focused on reducing loneliness, increasing belonging, and helping people build stronger local connections. While those efforts benefit everyone, the research suggests there may be a special opportunity (and need) to engage men. Many men do not build friendships the same way women often do. Research has found that men frequently connect through shared activities, common projects, and experiences rather than lengthy emotional conversations. In other words, men often talk shoulder-to-shoulder rat...