Let Us Gather: Building Relationships with Neighbors is Key


What follows are fun, easy, and inspiring ideas for gathering. These ideas come from a combination of my experiences and our partners' recommendations.

These are just ideas – you decide what works best in your neighborhood. The most important thing is that whatever you choose, remember the goal is to build relationships and connections among neighbors, not entertain them.

Gathering ideas:

  • Yard sale (with neighbor discount)
  • Ice cream social
  • Donuts in the driveway
  • Goodies in the garage
  • Pancakes on the porch
  • Book exchange
  • Outdoor movie screening
  • Neighborhood walking tour
  • Kite flying
  • Bake sale for charity
  • Whiffle ball tournament
  • Ping pong tournament
  • Slip and slide
  • Lemonade stand
  • Cookie exchange
  • Get a lawn charge and a cooler with drinks for a driveway chat with neighbors

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