A Road Map to Neighborhood Abundance with Engaged Neighboring

 

Any journey begins with a single step. Then, by taking several small steps, you can begin on the journey of a lifetime. That is how I feel about the Engaged Neighbor Program and how people can take actions today to begin building stronger, friendlier neighborhoods—one small step at a time.

The first step is showing up. That means being outside and visible. Take daily walks for a week. Smile, wave, and say hello to neighbors. Sit on your porch or work in your front yard. These little actions let others know you are open to connection.

Next, find an ally. It’s easier to do something new with a partner. Ask a neighbor to help you plan a small gathering. It could be a front-yard hangout, a fire-pit night, coffee and donuts in the morning, or a crafting night. Start simple and choose something fun.

Then, create a block map. Pick eight nearby homes and write down what you know about each neighbor. Are they a stranger (you don’t know their name), an acquaintance (you know their name and contact info), or a connection (you know their name, info, and something personal like a hobby or job)? This helps you track progress and notice where to build relationships.

Now, plan your first gathering. Hand-deliver invitations with your name, contact info, and details about the event. Keep it short and friendly. Ask neighbors to RSVP and let them know how long the gathering will last.

When it’s time to host, make it welcoming. Use a neighborhood map so everyone can mark where they live. Introduce yourself and explain that the goal is to connect, not to impress. Keep the conversation light. Ask neighbors about their homes, why they moved there, or what they enjoy doing.

One of the most meaningful parts is the "Discover Abundance" activity. Ask neighbors what skills they can share, what they like to create, or what hobbies they enjoy. Write these down! You might discover someone who loves baking, knows how to fix things, or plays guitar.

Afterward, send a thank-you message to everyone who came. Then keep it going. Make time to check in with neighbors regularly. Host another gathering. Start a community project like a clean-up day or garden. The goal is to create a place where people look out for each other.

Being an engaged neighbor doesn’t take a lot of money or time—just a little heart and effort. And the results can last a lifetime.

Written by David L. Burton

MORE INFORMATION

Take the Engaged Neighbor pledge and become part of a movement! The pledge outlines five categories and 20 principles to guide you toward becoming an engaged neighbor. Sign the pledge at https://nomoregoodneighbors.com. Individuals who take the pledge do get special invitations to future events online and in person. Contact the blog author, David L. Burton via email at dburton541@yahoo.com or visit his website at http://engagedneighbor.com.

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