Reginald Gatlin: A Lifelong Lesson in Neighborly Care in Raytown

 

For Reginald Gatlin of Raytown, Missouri, being a good neighbor isn’t just a hobby — it’s a lifelong calling rooted in lessons learned on a gravel road decades ago.

Growing up in a small rural town, he understood early what it meant to rely on others and to be reliable in return. Those simple, powerful lessons have shaped a life devoted to helping others, one yard, one errand, and one conversation at a time.

For his unwavering dedication and quiet compassion, Reginald has been named one of Missouri’s Top 20 Most Engaged Neighbors of 2025, part of Missouri Good Neighbor Week, led by University of Missouri Extension and The Hopeful Neighborhood Project. The honor celebrates Missourians whose daily acts of care and connection strengthen community bonds across the state.

Learning What It Means to Be a Neighbor

“I was first inspired as a child, growing up in a small rural country town,” Reginald said. “I had to walk two and a half miles on a gravel road to get to the bus stop. If I missed the bus, I had to find a ride to school — or walk to the next town 20 miles away. I learned then the importance of having good neighbors who would just pick you up if they saw you walking.”

That early experience, coupled with the values he found in Scripture, shaped his approach to life. “The Bible makes references on being a good neighbor,” he added. “It’s just the right thing to do when it comes to helping others.”

A Helping Hand, Every Day

Over the years, Reginald’s helping hands have touched nearly every house on his block. “I believe I’ve helped my neighbors improve the quality of their life by doing things they can no longer do on their own,” he said. “Everything from general maintenance to taking them to doctor’s appointments or picking up their medicine.”

His acts of service go far beyond errands. “I enjoy working on a neighbor’s car, mowing, putting up holiday decorations, clearing snow, or cooking a little extra to share,” he said. “But the most important thing is just taking the time to talk and check on them. So many have lost family members and are lonely. I let them know I’m here 24/7 and just a phone call away.”

A Neighbor Who Shows Up

His nominator — an 80-year-old neighbor who benefits from Reginald’s kindness — captured it best: “My neighbor brings food weekly to myself and many others on our block. He mows yards for no fee, does handyman work, and calls during winter storms to make sure we have power. He always brings a smile, even when you can tell he doesn’t feel well. He’s in his early 70s, has adopted his 3-year-old grandson, and still takes care of at least seven families every day.”

That testimony reflects the heart of Reginald’s character: selfless service done quietly, without expectation.

Advice for Aspiring Neighbors

When asked what he would tell others who want to be better neighbors, Reginald offered a simple invitation: “Start by talking to them. Don’t be afraid to say hello if you’re both outside. Introduce yourself — especially to new neighbors who might not know the area. I normally start out talking about the weather, and the conversation goes from there. Consistency is one of the keys to being a good neighbor.”

The Ripple Effect of Consistent Kindness

From mowing lawns to delivering meals, Reginald’s steady acts of kindness are a lifeline for many — especially his elderly neighbors and those without family nearby. Yet his influence goes beyond physical help. In his neighborhood, people know they are seen, cared for, and never alone.

His story illustrates that the essence of neighboring isn’t complicated — it’s consistent care, rooted in respect and humanity. As one neighbor put it, “Having a neighbor like Reginald is the true meaning of neighbor.”

Written by David L. Burton

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Take the Engaged Neighbor pledge and become part of a movement! The pledge outlines five categories and 20 principles to guide you toward becoming an engaged neighbor. Sign the pledge at https://nomoregoodneighbors.com. Individuals who take the pledge do get special invitations to future events online and in person. Contact the blog author, David L. Burton via email at dburton541@yahoo.com or burtond@missouri.edu. You can also visit his website at https://engagedneighbor.com.