Book Review: Fans Have More Friends by Ben Valenta and David Sikorjak

"Fans Have More Friends" is a refreshing and insightful book that reframes how we think about sports fandom, community, and human connection. With a blend of solid research, engaging storytelling, and practical insights, authors Ben Valenta and David Sikorjak make a compelling case that being part of a fan community isn’t just fun — it’s good for our social lives and overall well-being.

From the outset, the book’s central premise feels both surprising and intuitive: that fans tend to have stronger social connections, deeper friendships, and a greater sense of belonging than those who aren’t engaged in fandom. Through extensive surveys, interviews, and personal stories gathered over years of research, Valenta and Sikorjak demonstrate that fandom can act as an antidote to loneliness and social isolation — a particularly resonant message in a world where many people report feeling disconnected.

What makes 'Fans Have More Friends" especially compelling is how it balances data with humanity.

The authors don’t just rely on charts and numbers (though there are plenty of those, for readers who love empirical evidence); they bring the research to life with vivid anecdotes and real voices from fans. These stories underline a simple truth: fandom gives people something bigger than themselves to care about, and in doing so, it brings them together.

Valenta and Sikorjak don’t shy away from deeper questions about social division either. 

They explore how shared enthusiasm for a team or sport can bridge differences and foster empathy — whether between family members, longtime friends, or even strangers at a game. This element elevates the book beyond a niche topic into a broader conversation about community, identity, and the ways we find connection in modern life.

Readers unfamiliar with sports culture will still find themselves engaged and even inspired; many reviewers have noted that the book changed how they view fandom and encouraged them to participate more actively in fan communities. At the same time, lifelong sports fans will recognize and appreciate the many truths about camaraderie, shared rituals, and the joy of rooting for something together.

Overall, "Fans Have More Friends" is an upbeat, well-researched, and ultimately uplifting read. It succeeds not only in making a persuasive argument backed by social science, but also in reminding us why belonging — to a community, a group, or even a team — matters so much to human happiness. Whether you’re a die-hard fan or someone who’s never worn a team jersey, this book offers something meaningful about the ways we connect with each other.


Written by David L. Burton

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