Our special guest on Oct. 16 was Joshua Shinn, a community development specialist with University of Missouri Extension. (You can see the class video here ). In advance of the class he put together a flier just full of good information. This is why I learned from the flier. When someone who is served in the military moves home, they often face more than just unpacking boxes. Civilian life brings new rhythms, different expectations, and sometimes a sense of isolation. As neighbors, we can play a powerful role in helping veterans feel seen, valued, and connected. Here’s how. Understand Without Assuming Respect both the uniform and the person. Military service shapes people profoundly, but it’s just part of their identity. Don’t reduce a neighbor to “just a vet.” They are more: parent, hobbyist, gardener, mechanic, cook, friend. Don’t demand or press for stories. If a veteran wants to share about deployment, combat, or loss, that’s their choice. For many, discussing what happened ca...