A Town Worth Caring About

 

Jeff Siegler, author of “Your City is Sick,” doesn’t mince words when he says, “Most people live in a community that isn’t worth caring about, so they don’t.” That stings, but it rings true. Drive through almost any town and you’ll see the evidence: peeling paint, trash in the ditch, half-empty storefronts, and people who no longer show up for the parade or volunteer for the clean-up day. 

The symptoms of apathy are everywhere, and they quietly erode the spirit of a place.

We often think money will fix it. A new employer, another subdivision, or a downtown grant will somehow spark pride again. But apathy isn’t cured with asphalt or incentives. It’s healed through connection, belonging, and beauty.

When people know one another, they start to care about one another. That’s why the simplest act of meeting a neighbor, waving at someone you pass every day, or hosting a block gathering matters more than most city-wide plans. Human connection is the foundation of civic pride.

People also care about identity—what their community stands for and what makes it special. Every town has stories worth retelling: the local factory that pivoted to help in a crisis, the teacher who inspired generations, the volunteers who refused to let a park close. When we remind ourselves of those stories, we rediscover why this place matters.

And then there’s ownership. We feel pride when we support the coffee shop owned by someone we know, when we paint the fence instead of waiting for someone else, when we choose to plant flowers instead of posting complaints online. Ownership is contagious; one small act of care gives others permission to do the same.

Finally, Siegler reminds us of beauty. A community that looks cared for feels cared for. Clean sidewalks, public art, tidy yards, and lively parks aren’t trivial—they’re visual cues that say, “Someone loves this place.” Beauty inspires better behavior; pride follows care, not the other way around.

If we want thriving towns, we have to make them worth caring about. That starts not with a big budget, but with a handful of people willing to notice, connect, and take small, steady action. Because when neighbors begin to care—even just a little—the transformation of a place is never far behind.

Written by David L. Burton

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