Culture is like a big ship—it doesn’t turn quickly. You can’t just yank the wheel and expect an instant change of course. It takes time, teamwork, and a clear destination. The same is true for our American culture and the way we think about neighboring. For several decades now we’ve been taught—quietly but consistently—that being a  good neighbor  means minding your own business. A good neighbor, we were told, keeps their yard tidy, pays their taxes, and doesn’t bother anyone. That definition fit well with the rise of privacy fences, garage door openers, and a lifestyle designed for independence. We learned to wave politely and then retreat indoors. But as we’ve drifted along with that cultural current, something important has been lost. We have fewer conversations across the fence, fewer shared meals, and fewer friendships close to home. Loneliness, disconnection, and division have taken root in the quiet spaces where community once grew. Changing that idea of what it means t...

While April Fool’s Day has been a beloved tradition for centuries, it does seem to be losing popularity. Fewer people seem to pull off big pranks, and some major companies have even stopped participating.  What is the right choice for you and your neighbors? One reason people could be turning away from April Fool's Day is that people are more cautious about spreading misinformation, especially in the age of social media. Sometimes, pranks can be taken too far and cause real confusion or harm. (Plus people do not always read things closely on social media). Another reason might be that people are simply busier and less interested in practical jokes than they used to be. Or some people say it is because we have lost our sense of humor as a nation. WHAT ARE THE TRENDS To understand these trends lets begin with some history. April Fool’s Day is celebrated on April 1st every year. Typically, it is a day filled with jokes, pranks, and laughter. (Honestly, I was never very good at these!)...