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Book Review: Find Your People: Building Deep Community in a Lonely World by Jennie Allen

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  Have you ever felt lonely, even when surrounded by people? In Find Your People , Jennie Allen helps readers understand why true friendships and deep connections matter—and how to build them. This book is inspiring, practical, and easy to understand, making it a great choice for anyone who wants to strengthen their relationships. Allen begins by explaining that many of us live in a culture that values independence. We are busy, distracted, and often afraid to open up to others. But humans were made for community. She shares personal stories, biblical wisdom, and research that show why deep friendships are important for our well-being. Her message is simple: We need each other, and we have to be intentional about forming real connections. One of the best things about this book is that it doesn’t just tell readers why friendships matter—it also gives advice on how to make them stronger. Allen talks about practical steps, like finding people with shared values, being vulnerable, an...

Why Should I Care About Knowing My Neighbors When I Live on a Farm?

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  Living on a farm often means being surrounded by acres of land, with neighbors sometimes miles away. Unlike city or suburban life, daily interactions with others in a rural setting may be limited. According to MU Extension's "State of Neighboring" study, most Missourians now say a good neighbor is someone who is quiet and leaves them alone. It is a recipe for isolation and loneliness along with decreases in social capital and trust.  One measure of this is how many neighbors you know by name. In that same study, 38 percent of Missourians said they know the names of all or most of their neighbors, but rural residents were much lower at 31 percent. However, knowing your neighbors is just as crucial in rural areas as it is in more populated settings. Building relationships with those around you fosters a sense of community, provides support in times of need, enhances safety, strengthens local connections, and fosters civic minded individuals. First and foremost, a strong s...