Mister Rogers Can Still Inspire the Best in Us


When I write the word “neighborhood,” what comes to mind? Did you picture a subdivision, city street, or perhaps a rural homestead with neighbors miles away?

Did any of you think of Mister Fred Rogers, the host of “Mister Rogers Neighborhood” for 50 years on PBS? My answer today would be yes, although I did not watch the show growing up.

Mister Rogers died 20 years ago. But his influence is still seen in children’s television, and people celebrate his lessons and write books about him.

Many of the lessons Mister Rogers taught children are also important to adults.

Feelings matter. What’s mentionable is manageable. 

Rogers said, “When we can talk about our feelings, they become less overwhelming, less upsetting, and less scary.” We must learn to give proper voice to emotion and manage it.

Take time for creative play. 

The Neighborhood of Make-Believe, the puppet kingdom, existed to show imagination, problem-solving, and growth. 

Learning new things can be challenging.

Mister Rogers showed that adults try new things, sometimes struggle, but try again. Activities like roller skating, golfing, and playing a musical instrument all require practice, which leads to improvement.

Know and value your worth. Mister Rogers drove this home, saying, “Everybody you meet has something special to give and receive.” We all have gifts. 

Accept where people are. It is wise not to dwell upon what others cannot do yet. His quote: “I think the greatest gift you can ever give is an honest receiving of what a person has to offer.”

Look for the helpers. Fred reiterated what his mother taught: “Especially in times of disaster… I’m always comforted by realizing there are still so many helpers and caring people in this world.”

Give without thought of gain. Mister Rogers taught that caring relationships made way for patience, tolerance, pride in the achievements of others, and strength when we give, anticipating nothing in return. No quid pro quo here.

Consider choices throughout life. There’s a choice between healing or hurting. What choices go into touching the lives of others in meaningful ways?

Join me in celebrating Mister Rogers birthday on March 20 and participating in “Won’t You Be My Neighbor Day.” 

This year I am encouraging visual reminders of “Won’t You Be My Neighbor” on your windows or in chalk on your sidewalk or driveway. Learn more online at https://wontyoubemyneighborday.com.

If you live near Owen Park in Republic, I’ll be there from 2 p.m. to 4 p.m. on Sunday, March 19, writing out quotes from Mister Rogers in chalk to the walking trail. Come join me and add your own Mister Rogers quotes that afternoon.


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