Trend of “Intentional Isolation” Leads to Loneliness

In today’s fast-paced world, many people are choosing to live in ways that separate them from others. Ann Meyer, co-creator of the website “The Neighboring Life,” calls this trend “intentional isolation.” Meyer believes that many Americans are deliberately cutting themselves off from their communities. While this might seem like a choice made for convenience, it often leads to loneliness and a lack of true connection with others.

The rise of modern technologies has made it easier than ever for people to isolate themselves. For example, online shopping allows people to buy what they need without ever having to leave their homes or interact with others. Social media platforms, while seemingly a way to connect, often offer shallow interactions that don’t provide the same depth as face-to-face conversations. (Plus, some fake connections too!) 

Similarly, remote work meetings, although practical, reduce the opportunities for casual interactions that can happen in an office setting. 

Each of these practices, Meyer explains, may seem like time-savers or ways to be more efficient, but they can actually have negative effects on mental health and community life.

One of the key problems with intentional isolation is that it cuts people off from the support systems that come from close-knit communities. 

In a neighborhood or small community where people know and care for each other, individuals can rely on their neighbors for help during difficult times, like assistance during difficulty  or having someone to talk to when feeling down. These acts of connection create bonds that help people feel like they belong to something bigger than themselves. 

However, when people choose isolation, they miss out on these opportunities to connect with others and form these important relationships.

Living isolated lives can also make people feel more disconnected and lonelier. Although technology can help us communicate with people around the world, it can never replace the deep, meaningful relationships we form with those who live near us. 

When people don’t interact with others face-to-face, they miss the chance to build trust, share experiences, and support one another in person.

While modern conveniences like online shopping, social media, and remote work may offer some benefits, they can also contribute to a growing sense of isolation. Ann Meyer’s idea of intentional isolation highlights the dangers of choosing convenience over connection. 

People need to remember that building strong, supportive relationships with those around us is key to living a fulfilling and meaningful life.

Written by David L. Burton

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